Stages of Twin Flame Relationship : 8 Majors

7 stages of twin flame

Twin Flame Journey is all about intensity and explosiveness. You will go through many stages until your bonding has fully matured. There are 8 stages of twin flame relationship that mostly all flames go through.

Some stages are primarily associated with wonderful experiences while others can be emotionally exhausting, but all of them are necessary for balancing the other half of you. Few of them are short, few are long and you may go through few of them multiple times.

Stages of Twin Flame Relationship

Stage 1: The Longing

The first stage is the initial period of your life where there is a strong sense of deep longing and inner feeling like you are not ‘Quite Whole”…!! As if something is “Missing” in your life….!!!

Even if you’ve never really thought about soul mates and twin flames before, this is the stage at which you begin to believe that there really is a perfect match out there for you. With yearning that you will meet “The One” someday…!!!

You probably have relationships and even fall in love while in this stage, but you never get the feeling that you have met “The One”. As a result, you always keep on looking for the “Other Half” and keep facing disappointments again and again…!!!

The search stage is also partly about preparing your life for the incoming arrival of your twin flame, even though you may not know why you are doing this….!!

Stage 2: The Crisscrossing

Unknowingly you both cross each other many times in physical planes before you both are ready for union. Situations automatically turn out in a way with lots of unbelievable events to unite you both.

“Twin flame souls” know each other immediately as soon as they cross each other, but their “conscious selves” don’t….!!!!

Sudden synchronicity exist between you and your twin flame. Twin flames often find out that they have been to the same places as each other at the same time on plenty of occasions, but as neither of them was ready for their twin flame they didn’t meet.

Until and unless the patches of unwanted frequencies are accumulated in their chakras, the “twin flames souls” keep on acting strangers to each other….!! They are followed by events that shed away their “shadow self”…. So that they can “consciously recognize” each other.

This process is called “Purging” where twin souls trigger an energetic ascension process with an aim to move back to their original higher frequency. The frequency they used to vibrate in spiritual planes….!!

Stage 3: The Recognition

Twin flame recognize each other only if they are back to their original frequency as that is the only “password” for their unique template….!!!

Along with the purging process, when you near your core frequency, you start recognizing each other “consciously” with a sense of awakening…!!!

You tend to just know when you’ve encountered your twin flame. Synchronicity will pop up around you and situations turn up to make you both meet on physical planes with “predestined pattern”.

You will find that certain psychic and empathic abilities are enhanced with in you… As if you are “back to self” after long time..!!

Regardless of how you meet, you will be shaken by the intensity of the bond you feel. You may feel intoxicated by it, and that all of your waking moments are occupied by thoughts of this person. You will be taken from your usual routine patterns and forced into a new life atmosphere. As your eyes meet across a room that neither of you were really supposed to be in, you will know that fate has brought you together…!!!

Stage 4: The Awakening and Love

You have finally met your twin flame. The person you have been longing for many lifetimes. You will fall rapidly, deeply, and madly in love (You will NOW Realize that the feelings you had in other relations in life till date, were not actually love.. This Is Pure Love..!!).

You might try to resist the experience at first. (perhaps due to an already established relationship), but eventually, you won’t be able to stay away from them. The longer you stay together, the more profound your bond will be…!!

You might feel like you’re always falling around your twin. This attraction will be something entirely new for you, and it will be unlike anything you have experienced before.

At this point, you will feel everything you have ever asked for has come true….!!! Your flame was the “last piece of the puzzle”, and now you feel complete…!!! This is now your paradise, and you intend to keep it that way…!!

Unfortunately, this is often more short-lived. As ascension unfolds and purging grows, the negativity (accumulated in your chakras) keeps being released….!!! (for cleansing, so that you can vibrate back to your core spiritual frequency.)

Although you are destined to know and love each other, you will still engage in conflicts. (In the same way you engaged in conflict with other relationships, before meeting your twin flame).

Stage 5: The Crisis

This stage involves significant anxiety, worries and stress about your bond with your twin flame relating with your betrayal, grief and struggles with self-love. Also number of other things that put pressure on your connection with your twin flame. It could be series of disagreements or big argument. It could be a mixture of little things that pile up and put pressure on you….!!!

This happens because you are getting to know your “Mirror Soul”….!!! Twin flames are called “mirrors” because they put a mirror up for you to see yourself….!!!

They highlight your hidden flaws as well as they bring out your strengths, which can be uncomfortable and painful. As a result, this causes one of you to become a “Runner”.

In spite of the “Supernatural Compatibility” of twin flames, this is often a point at which the two people decide to separate (a process that is extra painful, as it involves “giving up a part of you”…) However, if you can get through the next few stages, you will emerge stronger than ever before…!!

Stage 6: The Runner/Chaser Stage

No matter what form the crisis stage takes, it is always followed by a running or chasing stage. The separation is caused by unresolved issues within one or both of you that need to be dealt with.

These issues often take the form of old wounds – past traumas (most often Childhood Traumas). The traumas that are still causing you problems to this day…!!!

The less mature and spiritually less evolved partner will play the role of the “Runner”. While the more psycho-spiritual balanced partner will play the “Chaser”…!!

You may be in either role or you and your twin flame may switch back and forward between the two roles. This stage revolves around one twin flame “Distancing and Ghosting” the other…!!! Often out of fear of confronting the “Level of Intimacy” that the two of you are capable of experiencing….!!

Even though one flame wants to run away, it isn’t because of the other… It’s because they have not matured…!!

Things the runner need to work through are the negative feelings they have about themselves, which are reflected back to them in the eyes of their twin….!!!

The “runner twin” in this role will be in pain and will feel very defensive and resistant. Meanwhile, the other twin flame will give chase, believing that the bond is worth fighting for and working on…!!

The runner/chaser stage Can ONLY End Up when the running twin stops trying to get away, and the chasing twin stops trying to push.

Often, the end of this stage is characterized by both twin flames realizing that there are forces at work beyond their control. This is the stage of the relationship where both twins must learn to grow into each other rather than against each other.

Stage 7: The Surrender

At some point, while you are separated, you will independently surrender to the Twin Flame journey – willingly or otherwise. This phase is the perfect moment to spiritually, mentally and emotionally prepare yourself for your twin flame.

You both will start to give up on a previous need to control your relationship. Egos and emotional barriers will also break down, and a feeling of acceptance will start to evolve.

“Surrendering” is NOT about “giving up” on your connection, but rather about “accepting” that neither of you can escape from destiny….!!!

This can be a ‘positive realization’ that releases you both from past anxieties and allows you to better live in the moment, trusting that the universe will lead you to where you need to go…!!

This process also makes the flames substantially “More Comfortable” with each other. You will accept your “Special Connection” and embrace its power, but surrender to the fates to bring you back together…!!!

You’ll learn that your counterpart is “The Right Person for You”….!!!!

Achievement of “Calm and Balance” indicates that the “Final Stage” is approaching.

Stage 8: The Reunion

As more and more negativity is cleared, the twin’s energy set points “Rises into Higher Vibration” (Love, Peace and Joy). The twins are then harmonized to come together with a flow of positive energy opened…!!

Their energies are now blended into each other (instead of being repelled) and their chakras are now connected smoothly…!!

(-Twinflames share same Chakra System—But as they absorb unwanted patches of frequencies from their surrounding in their early life, it creates rough and imbalanced functioning of chakras till the date they meet/purge with their twinflame…!!!)

The last of the stages of twin flame journey ends up into physical reunion of twin flames, to fulfill their higher spiritual purpose together. Whether by reaching out or by synchronicity, you will reunite as more evolved, mature people. The two of you may finally come back to the same place, agreeing to finally physically consummating your bond or share a home.

“Inner work” and “Shadow work” is the only key to Reunion in twin flame relationship. The more you heal your past wounds, emotional baggage and childhood traumas, the more you are open to your magnificent twin flame relationship….!!!

When you and your twin flame are done with “Inner-work” and “Self-healing”, you both move on to the reunion stage. With a sense of peace, acceptance, reciprocal understanding, enjoying the sense of completeness that can only be found in each other’s companionship…!!!

Now you have a partner, a Yin to your Yang (or vice versa) with whom life challenges will not only seem easier but also more fulfilling and rewarding…!! This is the moment you will start working towards a single goal rather than your own goals….!!!

Fully Matured Twin Flame Relationship – A Sight to Behold…!!!

In going through challenging 8 stages of twin flame relationship, you’ll have learned lot about yourselves. About the potential attached to the unique kind of love you have found. Purity and Oneness begins here and you are not forcing the relationship anymore….!!

A Reunion with your Mirror Soul ultimately leads your path to a “Higher Dimension of Consciousness”…!!! Now you know that you are in it forever, so even the bad times aren’t that bad after all…!!

A Fully Developed Twin Flame Relationship is A Sight to Behold…!!! Not only for You and Your Twin, but also for the People Around You….!!!

 

 

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Love & Light
Krishna

Twin Flames are Eternally Committed to Each Other. They are Spiritual Partners who Fuel Each Other in Growth and Ascension through out Twin Flame Journey.

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